Are you tired of repeating the same dating patterns and wondering why relationships keep ending the same way?

Many Christian singles receive dating advice that sounds spiritual but lacks discernment.
“Just pray about it.”
“Love covers all.”
“Be patient. God is working.”

But patience without wisdom can lead to ignored red flags, blurred boundaries, and emotionally unhealthy relationships.

In Are You Ready to Be Treated Better?, Brian Howard offers a clear and practical guide to Christian dating, emotional maturity, and healthy relationships. Drawing from experience in education, counseling, and ministry, he helps listeners move beyond surface-level advice and develop the discernment needed to recognize character, compatibility, and emotional health before becoming deeply attached.

This book will help you:

• Identify red flags and green flags early in dating
• Recognize manipulation, narcissistic traits, and unhealthy dynamics
• Understand compatibility beyond attraction and chemistry
• Establish healthy boundaries without guilt
• Ask better questions and slow the pace of dating
• Evaluate character, humility, and emotional maturity
• Avoid repeating toxic relationship patterns

Rather than promoting fear or suspicion, this book equips you with discernment, so you no longer ignore what your instincts and values are already telling you.

If you are ready to stop rationalizing poor treatment, stop confusing intensity with intimacy, and start pursuing relationships built on wisdom, character, and mutual respect, this book will help you date with clarity, confidence, and peace.

It’s time to pursue healthy Christian relationships.

For listeners who want to go deeper into recognizing manipulation within Christian environments, see Brian Howard’s companion book The Christian Narcissist.