Sixty-something. Newly single after a 35-year nearly sexless marriage. Nonbinary, plural, and hitting the dating apps for the first time. What could possibly go wrong?

Everything. Hilariously, heartbreakingly, everything.

Bachelorx follows Skye—Orpheus in the memoir—through the contemporary queer dating landscape: the attraction, the disappointment, the desire, the ghosts. But this isn't just a story about looking for love out there. It's a story about the love story happening inside—between the different parts of a self that has survived a lot, and is learning, one disastrous date at a time, to come back together.

Told in multiple voices and fonts—each personality with its own distinct presence on the page—Bachelorx is a memoir unlike any you've listened to. Groundbreaking and relatable, laugh-out-loud funny and quietly devastating, it's about dating, yes—but more essentially, it's about what it means to come home to yourself, all of yourself, after dating pulls you away.

"In Kaye's funny and poignant book, you get an absorbing story, a unique writing style, and a courageous, uncensored window into the way internal family members interact and interface with the world. You get all those things and more."—Dr. Richard Schwartz, PhD, creator of Internal Family Systems and author of You Are the One You've Been Waiting For