'Coming out' for many people is, or can be, a fearful task. For some, it's not a problem. Whichever side you find yourself on, you don't want to live in the closet; you have a right to be who you are, and you definitely don't need anyone's permission to be you.

And as for those who say "It's a choice" - when did they make a choice to be "straight"?

This and the following downloads explore and identify who you are as a person. It cuts across the guilt and anxiety, and puts you right where you need to be - and not at arms length because others have a different view. That's not your problem.

How others understand you is based upon how they think, and that includes your patents and other loved ones. It is up to them.< /p

If there is "love" in the equation, then your parents or loved ones will be happy for you, because if you are happy, what more could they wish for? If they aren't, and they want their will imposed, then that's not love; it is sheer selfishness.

This double download is "Understanding It All". It's all about you, and whilst there are endless variations in thoughts and feelings, this highlights many topics and understandings which are common.

You are what / who you are in every respect - and not the product of what others want or feel or anything else.